All these people quitting...

well a good example currently would be feli she feels left out of the community and no one even really talks to her (and honestly i'm glad she didn't see anything about stella in the "utau's you dislike" thread) she feels awful and feels like quitting cause her character is flamed alot. me and ari have been helping her out finding vsq's and ust's and helping with her oto. she's a very capable person but she still needs help from time to time like anybody, but her words fall on deaf ears =/ she's a really nice, sweet and shy person, she's even asked to help for one of the large group chorus's here but it even went unheard (she offered to draw for the group and why would no one let her draw? her drawings are freakin amazing!).

and ari in the beginning lots of people talked to her but then that rumor went around that she said something about aele (remember?) or was it the other that was said i think it went something like "don't be friends with her cause she's a manipulative bitch"?(well that's the one yesi was told atleast. but yesi and ari now friends) exact words btw, and the moment that happened it's never been the same she got ignored alot but even then she still helped everyone but with no kindness in return not till i stepped in and attempted to kill the rumor.
(my god that rumor was so stupid and aele hates it too and believe me if you got a rumor for her she will get up in your face and tell you to shut up about it and go talk to that person directly *known her for 3 years i know*)

like i said before in my old thread "no one wants to make friends, if the friends they make turn out to be fake... because no one needs that feeling" =/

i know they both want to continue still making utau's but, with how things are going i dunno...

that's the clearest i can get at the moment without feeling angry =_=

i forgot i wasn't logged in on my account DX NANASHI

Uhhhh, wait what? When has Feli ever even posted on these forums : /

If this is off forum, well, its off forum. We can't do anything about it.
I figured this was about on forum discussions.

I'm not trying to downplay what your saying, but erm, people seem to be talking about what goes on in the forums, not outside.

i am and feli did used to post here but she left, i'm trying to bring feli back but, she feels lack of trust or honesty from this place =/. and sometimes when everyone knows everyone from a forum over msn and/or skype rumors happen (they'll always happen of course but yeah =/) and get leaked into the forums, which is pretty much what happened with ari.

EDIT: almost forget feli posted before the forum change so you won't see any of hers anymore. and you kinda proved a point on how she was looked over... =x

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Okay, Im going to be honest, nobody cares.
If they want to make a BFD out of quiting, then let it be
worry about yourselves.

kisekixkoe wrote:Okay, Im going to be honest, nobody cares.
If they want to make a BFD out of quiting, then let it be
worry about yourselves.

I'm sorry, but I need to say this:
If you're posting here just to spread the unfairness and selfishness of our humanity on there, a place where we came to get away from it (at least what i think), well don't post, and go back in this world, killing your friends for some muffin.

kisekixkoe wrote:Okay, Im going to be honest, nobody cares.
If they want to make a BFD out of quiting, then let it be
worry about yourselves.

A++

Just let them flounce. They usually aren't worth the trouble.

Um... wow. Herm.

Well. I just don't know.
A person I met on here I became freinds with, left. And I sure didn't ignore them (I don't use twitter much though, maybe I should have?), definitly tried to include them in conversation and their Utau in projects... and it's just... was I suppose to do more then that?

Sometimes I almost feel like because I'm not prominent in the community those people who leave don't want /me/ to be inclusive. I'm not who they want approval from, so I can't do anything about it. When they leave because of 'people over looking them' reasons.

When it's for family/lack of interest reasons it would be selfish to want them to stay but this thread is about people who are ignored leaving more right?

And... I don't seem to be able to do much about it for those reasons I outlined.

I don't mind that I'm not a popular Utau user, because I just enjoy using it, and learning and improving. And I'm very glad this forum is here so I can meet people with common interest in it who can help me get better and work with me on projects ^^. I'd be sad if this place went away, and I'm sad when people leave, but what else can I do but what I've been doing?

KanashiiNoNeko wrote:

kisekixkoe wrote:Okay, Im going to be honest, nobody cares.
If they want to make a BFD out of quiting, then let it be
worry about yourselves.

I'm sorry, but I need to say this:
If you're posting here just to spread the unfairness and selfishness of our humanity on there, a place where we came to get away from it (at least what i think), well don't post, and go back in this world, killing your friends for some muffin.

My philosphy may be pessimistic and lowly, but the pessimist will prevail and become the realist,
Now, the pessimist isnt always the realist, but rather can be the simple downer, in this case, Im just saying that IF youre going to put yourself in distress over someone else quitting, then dont , because Im sure they have their own reasons, you will just be giving them grief if you BEG them to come back, because honestly,
if they have no interest in participating, then so be it, because it IS their decision.

Spoiler:

I think people just need to chill and think this over a little bit.

I mean nothing's fair. And things come and go. So live life as best as you can.

Hmm...Ok you guys are right, I shouldn't have started this, I shouldn't have logged in there, I shouldn't have opened my computer, I shouldn't have woken up this morning, I shouldn't have being breathing during 12 years, I shouldn't even have been born....

Are you happy now?

That's going overboard there.

No one wants to leave. But everyone overreacted (I sure as hell did).

And no one is banned unfairly in this place or anywhere for that matter.

It's all the matter of accepting opinions that don't agree with yours.

Once you get a hang of that, life is easy, or so I've been told.

Guys.
Stop it, okay?
There's no need to get into a heated debate over this here.
I dont like this thread. too much negativity, so ill be asking Halo or someone to close it, just to, y'know, end all the arguing.

Forgive and forget, you guys.

xLei wrote:That's going overboard there.

No one wants to leave. But everyone overreacted (I sure as hell did).

And no one is banned unfairly in this place or anywhere for that matter.

It's all the matter of accepting opinions that don't agree with yours.

Once you get a hang of that, life is easy, or so I've been told.

Yeah, you're totally right!

...and sorry, at my fault (srsly...why did i have to do that?) this became something about "what this world is" and stuff...seriously, i'm very sorry...

Luna wrote:Guys.
Stop it, okay?
There's no need to get into a heated debate over this here.
I dont like this thread. too much negativity, so ill be asking Halo or someone to close it, just to, y'know, end all the arguing.

Forgive and forget, you guys.

Totally should.
Let's forget about them and live our happy lives.

I agree. Happy UTAU Workers right?

This board is being locked... I'll consult myst or other mods as to if it is going to be deleted but for now... it's locked.