So first, let's imagine...
It's a town, or even a country. MMDing, drawing, OTOing are all jobs. When you don't know how to do something, you ask a "professional". The mods? They will be the government. Say, you won't love the government to be a dictator, right? But you have to show that you're mature enough to be trusted, right?
Now let's switch to if you were a mod.
It's sure that you want the forums to be perfect, no problems at all, but is that possible? "Nobody is perfect", (do I have to credit for this sentence? Right, thanks Kenji) right? Don't try to keep everything running on the tiny path you created. Let's take an easy example, have you taken care of young kids? Like, around 2 or 3? They have their own ways of doing things, right? Like, if you play cars with them, you tell them to "go down the street until X" maybe they'll turn the little car in another street halfway there. You'll probably tell them "oh well, that's good too" instead of "No! That's wrong! Do as I tell!"
But what I see in this forums?
Just like a little kindergarten from China. They want the kids to follow EXACT RULES... Well, you know how this turns out. But us, people in the forums, we are not that much better. We can sometimes act like little kids, somehow "forcing" them to be like that...
But the thing is, in which free country you haven't seen people drawing the government as some ridiculous things? This is a sacrifice worth it or not?
People seeing others over themselves oftenly are the most appreciated ones.
...Ok it's getting pretty hard to understand at the end, but i don't have much time...